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असक्तिः अनभिष्वङ्गः पुत्र दार गृहादिषु ।
नित्यम् च सम चित्तत्वम् इष्टानिष्ट उपपत्तिषु ॥ ९ ॥

asaktiH anabhiSvaGgaH putra dAra gRhAdiSu |
nityam ca sama cittatvam iSTAniSTa upapattiSu || 9 ||

असक्तिः [asaktiH] Not bound by attachments, अनभिष्वङ्गः [anabhiSvaGgaH] being without possessiveness पुत्र दार गृहादिषु [putra dAra gRhAdiSu] towards a son, wife or a home, सम चित्तत्वम् [sama cittatvam] having the same attitude नित्यम् [nityam] at all times, च [ca] even on उपपत्तिषु [upapattiSu] encountering इष्ट अनिष्ट [iSTa aniSTa] the favorable and the unfavorable.

Not bound by attachment to anything other than the Self;

Fulfilling the duties towards a son, wife or home, without stepping over to become possessive about them;

Having the same attitude at all times, even on encountering the favorable and the unfavorable - Often we intend something, after which favorable or unfavorable events happen . This is about being without ecstasy or agony in those situations.

This comes from the fact that the intent is ours and the outcome is a result of our past deeds.